I missed blogging...its been a long time since my last entry. Been juggling my time with my first work and second work, O, and Misha. And with the latest addition of me "leaving or not leaving" and the big responsibility that lies with it and my sis' vacation with so many things to accomplish all in just two weeks.....with all these and more....Rio....Be Still.
this goes to my friend as well...you know who you are :-)
Be still.
Just for a moment.
Listen to the world around you. Feel your breath coming in and going out. Listen to your thoughts. See the details of your surroundings.
Be at peace with being still.
In this modern world, activity and movement are the default modes, if not with our bodies then at least with our minds, with our attention. We rush around all day, doing things, talking, emailing, sending and reading messages, clicking from browser tab to the next, one link to the next.
We are always on, always connected, always thinking, always talking. There is no time for stillness — and sitting in front of a frenetic computer all day, and then in front of the hyperactive television, doesn’t count as stillness.
This comes at a cost: we lose that time for contemplation, for observing and listening. We lose peace.
And worse yet: all the rushing around is often counterproductive. I know, in our society action is all-important — inaction is seen as lazy and passive and unproductive. However, sometimes too much action is worse than no action at all. You can run around crazily, all sound and fury, but get nothing done. Or you can get a lot done — but nothing important. Or you can hurt things with your actions, make things worse than if you’d stayed still.
And when we are forced to be still — because we’re in line for something, or waiting at a doctor’s appointment, or on a bus or train — we often get antsy, and need to find something to do. Some of us will have our mobile devices, others will have a notebook or folder with things to do or read, others will fidget. Being still isn’t something we’re used to.
Take a moment to think about how you spend your days — at work, after work, getting ready for work, evenings and weekends. Are you constantly rushing around? Are you constantly reading and answering messages, checking on the news and the latest stream of information? Are you always trying to Get Lots of Things Done, ticking off tasks from your list like a machine, rushing through your schedule?
Is this how you want to spend your life?
If so, peace be with you. If not, take a moment to be still. Don’t think about what you have to do, or what you’ve done already. Just be in the moment.
Then after a minute or two of doing that, contemplate your life, and how you’d like it to be. See your life with less movement, less doing, less rushing. See it with more stillness, more contemplation, more peace.
Then be that vision.
It’s pretty simple, actually: all you have to do is sit still for a little bit each day. Once you’ve gotten used to that, try doing less each day. Breathe when you feel yourself moving too fast. Slow down. Be present. Find happiness now, in this moment, instead of waiting for it.
Savor the stillness. It’s a treasure, and it’s available to us, always.
Lala and I attended a mass together for you last Friday. While the priest was delivering his homily, (very timely 'coz it was about having the real treasures here on earth-friends and families) good times with you was all I reminisced. That same night, upon returning home, I looked for the scrapbook PC2 gave me as farewell gift in March 2008 with your message in it. You mentioned there, we we're both crazy that's why I am one of those you felt at ease with easily. I also loved the part when you said-"Whatever your plans are, just do what you have to do. Hesitations will only slow you down. A brighter future is ahead.. Don't let anybody stop you from getting what you want, it's your life anyway. Basta masaya ka, wala ka sinasagasaan, then you're fine." ...Having said that, you are not only crazy but a person with a beautiful soul...
