My New Love

Farewell Ryan!

2011-06-19T21:49:00.000-07:00

Lala and I attended a mass together for you last Friday. While the priest was delivering his homily, (very timely 'coz it was about having the real treasures here on earth-friends and families) good times with you was all I reminisced. That same night, upon returning home, I looked for the scrapbook PC2 gave me as farewell gift in March 2008 with your message in it. You mentioned there, we we're both crazy that's why I am one of those you felt at ease with easily. I also loved the part when you said-"Whatever your plans are, just do what you have to do. Hesitations will only slow you down. A brighter future is ahead.. Don't let anybody stop you from getting what you want, it's your life anyway. Basta masaya ka, wala ka sinasagasaan, then you're fine." ...Having said that, you are not only crazy but a person with a beautiful soul...

You will always be remembered because you are a wonderful person. Thank you for the wonderful memories during our PC2 and SR days.Thank you for touching our lives.

May you rest in peace...

Just love...

2011-05-27T23:02:00.000-07:00

From sweet Kurt

2011-05-27T22:25:00.000-07:00

First Best

2011-05-27T22:19:00.000-07:00

This concludes it.

One day, while waiting for someone at a bookstore, there's this book that caught my attention. I forget the book title, but I managed to take a pic of the page that struck me most...me being "Paige"...

perfect time

2011-05-27T21:39:00.000-07:00

All my life I waited for the right Moment
to let you know I don’t wanna let you go!
Now I realize there’s just no perfect time
To confess how I feel, This much I know is real!
So I refuse to waste for more second
And without you knowing my heart.
Baby cause I don’t need anything else but your love

Take these words, Don’t let them go unheard,
This is me reaching out I hope you can hear me now! ‘
Cause baby, my heart says stay Take it, it’s yours to break
I’d rather try and lose Than keep this love from you!

-accomplished 9th of May 2011

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Food trip

2010-12-18T08:26:00.000-08:00

I spent a month in SG for training. Not only did I trained for work, but I also trained my taste buds to be adventurous. I wasn't like that before. Maybe this time, I was too shy to say NO to my SG colleagues because I felt their warm welcome thru this gesture-of letting me try some of their local food.

Here are some of the food that I tried:

Photos taken from the net

Satay
Fried Oyster Cake
Fried Carrot Cake
Otah
Bubble Tea
Nasi LemakClaypot Rice
Mee Rebus
Teh Tarik
Fish Head Curry
Pad Thai

Very Short But Amazing Speech by Coca Cola CEO Bryan Dyson

2010-10-13T09:31:00.000-07:00

“Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air. You name them – Work, Family, Health, Friends and Spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the Air.

You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back.

But the other four Balls – Family, Health, Friends and Spirit – are made of glass. If you drop one of these; they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered. They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for it.”

WORK EFFICIENTLY DURING OFFICE HOURS AND LEAVE ON TIME. GIVE THE REQUIRED TIME TO YOUR FAMILY, FRIENDS & HAVE PROPER REST.

Stop

2010-10-13T09:13:00.000-07:00

I missed blogging...its been a long time since my last entry. Been juggling my time with my first work and second work, O, and Misha. And with the latest addition of me "leaving or not leaving" and the big responsibility that lies with it and my sis' vacation with so many things to accomplish all in just two weeks.....with all these and more....

Rio....Be Still.

this goes to my friend as well...you know who you are :-)

(taken from a blog)

Be still.

Just for a moment.

Listen to the world around you. Feel your breath coming in and going out. Listen to your thoughts. See the details of your surroundings.

Be at peace with being still.

In this modern world, activity and movement are the default modes, if not with our bodies then at least with our minds, with our attention. We rush around all day, doing things, talking, emailing, sending and reading messages, clicking from browser tab to the next, one link to the next.

We are always on, always connected, always thinking, always talking. There is no time for stillness — and sitting in front of a frenetic computer all day, and then in front of the hyperactive television, doesn’t count as stillness.

This comes at a cost: we lose that time for contemplation, for observing and listening. We lose peace.

And worse yet: all the rushing around is often counterproductive. I know, in our society action is all-important — inaction is seen as lazy and passive and unproductive. However, sometimes too much action is worse than no action at all. You can run around crazily, all sound and fury, but get nothing done. Or you can get a lot done — but nothing important. Or you can hurt things with your actions, make things worse than if you’d stayed still.

And when we are forced to be still — because we’re in line for something, or waiting at a doctor’s appointment, or on a bus or train — we often get antsy, and need to find something to do. Some of us will have our mobile devices, others will have a notebook or folder with things to do or read, others will fidget. Being still isn’t something we’re used to.

Take a moment to think about how you spend your days — at work, after work, getting ready for work, evenings and weekends. Are you constantly rushing around? Are you constantly reading and answering messages, checking on the news and the latest stream of information? Are you always trying to Get Lots of Things Done, ticking off tasks from your list like a machine, rushing through your schedule?

Is this how you want to spend your life?

If so, peace be with you. If not, take a moment to be still. Don’t think about what you have to do, or what you’ve done already. Just be in the moment.

Then after a minute or two of doing that, contemplate your life, and how you’d like it to be. See your life with less movement, less doing, less rushing. See it with more stillness, more contemplation, more peace.

Then be that vision.

It’s pretty simple, actually: all you have to do is sit still for a little bit each day. Once you’ve gotten used to that, try doing less each day. Breathe when you feel yourself moving too fast. Slow down. Be present. Find happiness now, in this moment, instead of waiting for it.

Savor the stillness. It’s a treasure, and it’s available to us, always.

sorry

2010-08-31T04:38:00.000-07:00

sorry for i took her words wrongly

sorry for i chose the wrong move

sorry for the trouble i have caused

sorry that this has to happen...

can't disclose the detailed happening...but one day if i come across this particular blog entry, i would be well reminded of how i loved deeply...

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august 13

2010-08-14T21:09:00.000-07:00

Thank you

to the greeters..

my FB flooded with greetings from everywhere...felt so loved...

to the callers..

Kae from Sing and Macel from her office...luv u both!

to the surprisers..

MG, Lala and Fubi..the impromptu birthday dinner is so heavy on the tummies yet so light on the heart! The sweetest! and to Ems and PM, though u were not there physically, your presence are felt :-) Luv u dear friends!

to the gifts from...

mama for a chic carry-all bag
ninang mek for my ever fave DKNY Be Delicious
fubi for a so-very-me present....pink, rose, cat

lala and mg for the surprising Choco cake

and thank you for the greetings from a friend from the past...

and to my future...thank you for the love, O and Misha (my first birthday with them)...luv u both!

and most especially to my dear Lord..thank you for the work that i wished to come true before my birthday. thank you for my part-time job, thank you for keeping me safe and healthy, thank you for i am surrounded with wonderful friends and family, thank you for the year that was....looking forward to a great year ahead!!!

action speaks louder than words

2010-08-02T18:09:00.000-07:00

august 2 2010...

unspoken acceptance...

words are not enough to thank you pa!

photo - weheartit

if only

2010-08-02T03:25:00.000-07:00

Sometimes we just have to wait...

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There are instances in my life where I failed on my test of patience.

From as simple as this...

Last year when I purchased my BB, I so wanted it badly and waiting was never an option. With too much thought and me convincing myself, I firmly decided to buy it the following payday. After two weeks of enjoying my new phone, I have a friend who purchased the same unit at the same price but this is on a special Gitex (Gitex is an annual consumer electronics expo in Dubai.) promo- Buy this BB and you will receive BB Bold absolutely, no joke, FREE!!! Wahh!!

If only I have waited for another 15 days...

...To as life -changing as this...

Before I went back here, I applied in one of those good companies in Abu Dhabi. This is better compared to the last job I had in Dubai salarywise. On the interview, the Finance Manager closed it with "We will get back to you in a week if you are chosen." This time, I entertained waiting, but not too much. I waited for a week, for two weeks and gave up on the third. I now choose to go home...Approximately 7 hours before my flight, I received a phone call from the FM. He is apologizing for not getting back too soon because they considered many applicants for the position. I have no choice, they have no choice. My papers were already processed. All set...The opportunity flew the moment I said Goodbye to him on the phone.

If only I have waited more...

Regrets, move over!!!!!

This reminded me of one of Bo Sanchez's writings... "Wherever you are right now is exactly where God wants you to be"...

And I was touched by this - "When I know things are not meant for me, I learn to let go...It does not mean I'm weak, but I'm just showing how strong I am to fight the urge of wanting something I'm not supposed to have."

healthy date

2010-07-30T21:49:00.000-07:00

Last night, Lala and I went to SM Megamall to have a good weekend laugh courtesy of Sarah Geronimo, Judy Ann Santos and Vice Ganda...Since she is on a strict General Motors Diet, and she is on her 4th day wherein she can only take bananas and milk, this immediately popped on my head and I highly recommended to her my ultimate fave fruit shake, Big Chill's Banana Smoothie as our company as we watched. I am so glad she liked it! After laughing and Lala crying on one part of the movie (haha!) and since we still can't get enough of our stories, we roam around looking for a place where we can dine this time with greens (ooops..a little breaking on her strict diet, but I think veggies won't do any harm). We ended up with Mexicali. Again, loved the food and of course the catching-up-chikas along with it!

'Til our next healthy date...Thank you, La!

not a good one

2010-07-29T03:57:00.000-07:00

First, I was instructed to have my second xray, then I can return after lunch to know the findings, then when I came back, still the same findings, then was again given another instruction, this time to go back to where I had my last xray before I left for Dubai to get the plate for comparison. If I won't be able to present last year's plate,the doctor said I will not be given medical clearance(tough huh?!!?!)...awwwwww.. Please Mister!!! I will come back tomorrow...Do find my plate!!!

Second, while multi-tasking, cooking while talking with someone on the phone, plok!!!! it happened so fast!!! my BB went swimming!!! oh no!!! based on the net, will have to wait for 3 days to turn ON the phone so that we are sure its internal parts are already dry and to prevent short circuit...whew!!!

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Enough for today, please!!! Easy ka lang, Rio...it will all be OK!!!

May bago na ko

2010-07-24T22:01:00.000-07:00

Lord, Thank you for granting my wish before my birthday. Looking forward to new learnings and new friends.

simple pleasures

2010-07-24T20:29:00.001-07:00

in the middle of our chaotic, stressful days, there are little pleasant surprises that come our way that really make us feel nothing beats life's simple pleasures! what are your simple pleasures?- Bianca Gonzales

here are mine to name some...

1. my comfort food -

varies depending on my mood and cravings...as of this writing, these are my happy food..just yesterday, after deciding from range of options of goodies on the supermarket, i ended up cuing on the cashier with these treats

2. fave food -

one of my fave fruit right from their backyard with love

3. surprises -

JP is one of my friends who never fails to delight me with surprises. On this pic below, he writes on the 2010 Starbucks planner he really kept for me. He did the complete-the-stickers-thing as I was not here last Christmas 2009 and he kept it thinking how he can give it to me. Good thing, I came home April and he was able to give it to me. Not too late :-)

And on this one below, I took a picture of his pasalubongs for me from his trips from Thailand, Singapore and Malaysia. How sweet it is to be always remembered by JP!

4. putting a child to sleep -

Goodnight sweet cheeks, goodnight sleepy head, sweet dreams, sleep tight...until the morning light!-momay

5. nice chat with friends -

i just had a non-stop one yesterday ...from chikas related sa work, from irreconcilable differences to maturity, from tested friendships to revelation of crushes to love stories. hayyy! with laughter and chichirias on the side...long-trip-boredom killer! Love you guys!

dear boss

2010-07-16T00:31:00.001-07:00

Dear Minigold's Boss,

Please approve her annual vacation leave for just four SUPER valid reasons:

so that she can be spared from the scorching summer heat there in Dubai,
so that she can be with her loved ones
so I can see her on my bday and
so she can finally meet O :-)

Hoping for your kind consideration,
Rio

"Dear Ms. Rio,

Annual vacation leave approved as per your request.

Thanks,
Minigold's Boss" ----kulit lang ni Jho! yey for that!!!

How time flies, I still vividly remember just last year when she gave me a maxi dress on my birthday. So happy as I flaunted it...so happy that AJ can't contain my happiness and so she had her tantrums..."di bagay sa yo yan!!!"
hmmm si AJ inggit!!! wahahaha!!! Happy times together :-)

a dream come true

2010-07-16T00:14:00.000-07:00

Anawangin one month from now-my post-bday celeb from a dear friend! Thank u K! Here we come!!! Fingers crossed!!!

getting-ready-info from the web :-)

If your idea of a beach trip is chillin’ out by the beach in a hammock, singing around a campfire with a guitar and climbing beach cliffs to wait for the sunset then you should definitely go to Anawangin.

The Beach Cove
Anawangin is a cove in the town of San Antonio in Zambales. It is a beach that has an off-white sand and an evergreen forest cover near the shore (you’ll rarely see a coconut tree in Anawangin). Behind the forest is a small stream that flows out to the sea (During summer this stream dries up into a shallow pond). There are also two beach cliffs bounding the beach, which you can hike up and enjoy the view.

Getting There
Going to Anawangin will approximately take 6 hours. From Manila, you can drive or take a bus to San Antonio, Zambales. Upon arriving at San Antonio you can hire a boat at Pundaquit that will take you to Anawangin. It is advisable to leave Manila at night so it wouldn’t be hot while traveling.

Best Time To Go

The best time to go would be around February when the weather is not too hot and humid, and there are not as many people camping. Though we like the hippie vibe during the Summer months of April and May, the campsite is just too crowded.

What To Bring
There are no modern facilities in Anawangin; there are only a couple of toilets (without roofs) and water pumps as sources of running water. Bring lots of drinking water since drinking from the water pump is not safe, and the weather tends to be too hot at around 12 noon. Also bring your own food, there are no hotels and resorts that could prepare meals for you. For sleeping, you have to bring your own tent and pitch it under the forest cover where it is much cooler than by the shore.

What to do
Anawangin is definitely Boracay’s exact opposite in terms of development, but that doesn’t mean you’ll run out of stuff to do during your stay. Here are some suggested activities you could do aside from lying in a hammock by the beach:

1. Bonfire
Gather fallen twigs and light up a fire for warmth during the night. Bring a guitar so you can sing around the campfire. Just don’t forget to put it out when going to sleep.

2. Climbing
The beach is bound by two cliffs in the north and south. The northern cliff is higher and is not adviseable to trek in since it has loose rocks. The southern cliff is gentler and is easier to climb. You can get a great view of the beach at sunset (just don’t forget to bring flashlights so you could see your way down).

3. Trekking
Behind the evergreen forest is a stream (a dry riverbed in the summer) leading to a large hill. You can trek your way to this hill, just be cautious since there were reports that there are wild animals in this area.

4. Skimboarding
You could bring your skimboard to practice your moves. The beach is great for this activity since it has a fine sand and few rocks.

5. Ultimate Frisbee
Have your group play with you or better yet, invite other campers to join your group for a great game of frisbee.

You can arrange sidetrips with your boatman if you want to go island hopping. Nearby are Capones and Camara Islands. Capones Island is known for its centuries-old Spanish lighthouse while Camara Island is a rock climbing destination. Inform your boatman in advance and clear the details with him since there is no cellphone signal coverage in Anawangin.

Same with travelling anywhere be cautious; the beach has strong undercurrent at times – there was a guy who almost drowned during our stay. There were also reports of wild animals in the forest so please watch out.

With its evergreen forest, gentle stream, breath-taking views and off-white sand, Anawangin is one of the best beaches near Manila for city people who wouldn’t mind roughing it out in the great outdoors.

our first

2010-07-12T20:13:00.000-07:00

august 13th was mentioned in the movie...awww!!! of all the 365 dates in a year :-) :-) :-)

True

2010-07-08T20:22:00.000-07:00

Ally: I have my dessert first.

Tyler: Is that a political statement? A medical condition, perhaps?

Ally: I just don't see the point in waiting. I mean, what if I die while eating my entree?

Tyler: Is that probable?

Ally: It's possible. What if I choke? What if an asteroid come hurling down onto the restaurant?... I'll tell you what, if you swear on your eternal soul that I'll make it through my entree, then I'll wait. But before you answer, consider that if something does happen, you'll have to live the rest of your life knowing that not only did you lie to me, but you denied of my one last indulgence. Are you prepared to shoulder that kind of responsibility?

Eat, Pray, Love (An Excerpt)

2010-07-06T19:30:00.000-07:00

"People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master..." ~ Elizabeth Gilbert

up close

2010-07-04T22:33:00.001-07:00

today

2010-06-30T18:13:00.000-07:00

reposted from a friend in FB---
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“With Eyes But Cannot See”

Do not be ungrateful.
Today, before you say an unkind word,
Think of someone who can't speak.
Before you complain about the taste of your food,
Think of someone who has nothing to eat.
Before you complain about your husband or wife,
Think of someone who's crying out to GOD for a companion.
Today, before you complain about life,
Think of someone who died too early on this earth.
Before you complain about your children,
Think of someone who desires children but they're barren.
Before you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or sweep,
Think of the people who are living in the streets.
Before whining about the distance you drive,
Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.
And when you are tired and complain about your job,
Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job.
But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another,
Remember that not one of us is without sin.
And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down,
Put a smile on your face and think: you're alive and still around.
And you can still put yourself in the loving mercies of the Savior.

Today may just be your day.

Misha rolls over

2010-06-29T03:06:00.000-07:00

Jheng...meet O

2010-06-29T02:59:00.000-07:00

another acceptance from a friend when I introduced O...can't help myself documenting their acceptance cause I want to forever cherish how my friends love me so much...

...whoa! believe it or not kinikilig ako while reading this...i am super happy for you sis! napi-feel ko ung happiness mo just by reading this...malaki tlga adjustment kaya 1 step at a time...di kelangan na maging kasing tgal nung before bago mafigure out kung sya na ba tlga for life...minsan mararamdaman mo un kaagad kahit ilang months plang keo magkasama...the happiest times & things sa mundo eh kalimitan nasa mga simpleng tao lang, d ba sabi nga, hanap tayo ng hanap ng magpapasaya sa atin na di natin nakikita nasa harapan na pla natin, face to face pa kaso layo ng tingin natin..

basta dito lang kaming mga friends mo, suportahan ka namin whatever ang maging decision mo, sa 'yo 'yan kasi ikaw ang makikisama pero pag sinaktan ka ulit nyan papasalvage namin yan...heheheheh!

promise ipapakilala mo sa akin yan pag uwi ko ha...can't wait to meet him and to see how happy ka now...ingats plagi and stay happy and pretty! God Bless!

another good read

2010-06-27T21:33:00.000-07:00

I Have Learned

I’ve Learned…
That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.

I’ve Learned…
That when you’re in love, it shows.

I’ve Learned…
That just one person saying to me, “You’ve made my day!” makes my day.

I’ve Learned…
That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.

I’ve Learned…
That being kind is more important than being right.

I’ve Learned…
That you should never say no to a gift from a child.

I’ve Learned…
That I can always pray for someone when I don’t have the strength to help him in some other way.

I’ve Learned…
That no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.

I’ve Learned…
That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.

I’ve Learned…
That simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.

I’ve Learned…
That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.

I’ve Learned…
That we should be glad God doesn’t give us everything we ask for.

I’ve Learned…
That money doesn’t buy class.

I’ve Learned…
That it’s those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.

I’ve Learned…
That under everyone’s hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.

I’ve Learned…
That the Lord didn’t do it all in one day. What makes me think I can?

I’ve Learned…
That to ignore the facts does not change the facts.

I’ve Learned…
That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.

I’ve Learned…
That love, not time, heals all wounds.

I’ve Learned…
That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.

I’ve Learned…
That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.

I’ve Learned…
That there’s nothing sweeter than sleeping with your babies and feeling their breath on your cheeks.

I’ve Learned…
That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.

I’ve Learned…
That life is tough, but I’m tougher.

I’ve Learned…
That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.

I’ve Learned…
That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.

I’ve Learned…
That I wish I could have told my Mom that I love her, one more time, before she passed away.

I’ve Learned…
That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.

I’ve Learned…
That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.

I’ve Learned…
That I can’t choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it.

I’ve Learned…
That when your newly born grandchild holds your little finger in his little fist, that you’re hooked for life.

I’ve Learned…
That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you’re climbing it.

I’ve Learned…
That it is best to give advice in only two circumstances; when it is requested and when it is a life-threatening situation.

I’ve Learned…
That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.

Lovely day!

2010-06-26T19:25:00.000-07:00

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jogging at 4am -natupad din ang dream ko na makapajogging ulit after coming back from Dubai kasi I do this frequently back there and I missed it. Thanks for the sweet company!

breakfast at 6 am -lucky one!

mass at 6:30 pm -we changed our usual 745 pm Sunday mass because of...

...dinner at 8pm -special because he will cook for me (turbo broiled spring chicken and buttered shrimp yumyum!!) and it will be my first time sa bahay nila... :-)

what a LOVE-ly day!

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Misha Samantha's 4th month

2010-06-23T19:58:00.001-07:00

good read

2010-06-22T18:14:00.001-07:00

FROM:

http://www.wakeupcloud.com/77-great-quotes/

77 Great Quotes That Will Change Your Life

I’m addicted to quotes. They are inspiring, motivating and they have the power to provoke new thoughts. They have the power to break down old beliefs and inject wisdom into your life.

I’ve always gained inspiration from quotes, which is why I’ve decided to gather some of my favorite quotes into a post. Each quote comes with an elaboration from me.

The meanings of the quotes will probably not be the same for you as they are for me, so use whatever I say however you like. I can only share my own experience. After that it is up to you.

Enjoy!

Courage

1. “Courage is the discovery that you may not win, and trying when you know you can lose.” – Tom Krause

There are no guarantees in life. Even the false security of having a house, a family and money in the bank will pass. The only constant in life is change. The sooner we can accept that, the smoother life will be.

2. “The greatest barrier to success is the fear of failure.” – Sven Goran Eriksson

We all fear failure. It’s a learned habit. It is said that the only fears we are born with are the fear of falling and the fear of loud noises, the rest is learned. There’s nothing wrong with failure. In fact, if you never fail, you will never grow.

3. “If we’re growing, we’re always going to be out of our comfort zone.” – John Maxwell

I couldn’t agree more with this quote. The more comfortable I get with being uncomfortable, the faster I grow. When you’re moving forward and making progress, you will feel uncomfortable, and that’s okay.

4. “A leader is one who knows the way, goes the way, and shows the way.” – John C. Maxwell

We grow up with the idea that we have to look for others for answers. Instead of seeking approval, look inside of yourself and feel what is right. We are all unique, therefore we are all on our own path. No one can tell you exactly what to do, because their destination is different from yours.

5. “They can’t hurt you unless you let them.” – Unknown

When I read this quote, I think about our imagination and our fears. Almost all of us are suffering without a cause. The fear of fear is worse than fear itself. You’ve probably heard it many times, but that’s because it’s true.

6. “The key to change… is to let go of fear.” – Rosanne Cash

The more you can let go of fear, the faster you will grow. I’m not talking about eliminating fear or being fearless. When I think about letting go of fear, I think about acknowledging it and letting it be there. There’s nothing wrong with being afraid.

7. “If you wait to do everything until you’re sure it’s right, you’ll probably never do much of anything.” – Win Borden

I’ve gotten many e-mails from people asking me for advice. The common thread that runs through them all is that they want to make sure they’re doing it right. My answer is always the same: you have to try, fail and try again. There are no guarantees. There is only the path.

8. “Courage is the power to let go of the familiar.” – Raymond Lindquist

What is familiar is comfortable. Even though the familiar might be worse than the unfamiliar, we still tend to hold on to it, because going into the unknown is uncomfortable. Having the courage to go into the unfamiliar can be tough, but not impossible. It requires a shift in perspective. Become curious. Become an explorer of life. This is an adventure.

9. “Courage is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm.” – Winston Churchill

This is another good take on courage. What we have to remember is that definitions and perspectives are constantly in flux. There are no absolutes. Courage for me isn’t the same as courage for you, which is why, in the end, you have to trust yourself.

10. “There is far more opportunity than there is ability. “ – Thomas A. Edison

Most people are afraid to take action. Sure, they have ideas, but they don’t do anything about it. It’s scary to go down that path, which is why so few do. In the end, you have to determine what kind of life you want to live: one of mediocrity, or one of greatness?

Motivation

11. “Dream as if you’ll live forever, live as if you’ll die today.” – James Dean

Dreams are important, but they do not come to fruition if you do not take action. Don’t procrastinate. Start living the life you want to live today. There is always a step you can take. There is always something you can do.

12. “Every accomplishment starts with the decision to try.” – Unknown

If you never start, you will never get anywhere. If you want to find your passion, it starts with trying. You will fail, you will make mistakes, but that’s a part of the journey.

13. “Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you’ll land among the stars.” – Brian Littrell

I’ve found that going after my goals rigidly only makes me unhappy. I now make goals, but I am flexible about them. I am open to new possibilities. Having a goal is essential, but use it as a guideline and not as something you have to reach.

14. “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” – Winston Churchill

Everything that you see around you will pass. Whatever success you may achieve will pass. Whatever failure you may run into will also pass.Doesn’t that make you wonder if life is more than chasing success and avoiding failure?

15. “People often say that motivation doesn’t last. Well, neither does bathing – that’s why we recommend it daily.” – Zig Ziglar

Following your passion isn’t effortless. I know many who think it should be, which is another obstacle holding them back from taking action. This is not a ride in the park. It’s a path of rapid growth. It contains both joy and fear.

16. “Never, never, never, never give up.” – Winston Churchill

Whatever you do—keep going. When I started playing poker professionally at the age of 18, I knew I was going to succeed. I was prepared to do anything. I knew that others were making money playing poker, so I thought “if they can, so can I.”

17. “Most folks are about as happy as they make their minds up to be.” – Abraham Lincoln

You determine your happiness. There are several studies out there that show that even if you win the lottery, your state of happiness will return to its previous level in about a year. What happens outside of you is of little importance, as long as you have the basic necessities.

18. “Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going.” – Jim Rohn

Motivation ebbs and flows. When I started blogging, the first few months were easy, but then I started bumping into periods of low energy. Habit and a focus on helping people is what kept me going. I constantly reminded myself that this was what I wanted to do.

19. “Be miserable. Or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it’s always your choice.” – Wayne Dyer

You are responsible for how you feel. You can blame external things if you want to, but it will never change how things are. It is only when you accept your own responsibility that you can change.

20. “There’s always a way – if you’re committed.” – Tony Robbins

If you’re passionate enough and if you care enough, you will overcome any obstacles. Excuses will be a thing of the past, but if you’re not determined, you will let the smallest excuse hold you back.

Inspiration

21. “When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don’t adjust the goals, adjust the action steps.” – Confucius

If you’ve been trying to make your passion a reality, please do not quit. If something doesn’t work, all you have to do is change your approach. Look at people who are already doing what you want to do, and learn from them.

22. “It’s kind of fun to do the impossible.” – Walt Disney

Everything that has been invented has at one time or another been thought of as impossible. Don’t let other people hold you down when it comes to going after your dreams. Trust your heart and follow your highest excitement.

23. “Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do.” – Benjamin Spock

I know you may doubt yourself when it comes to listening to your heart, but the more you do it, the easier it becomes. The sooner you embrace an attitude of curiosity, the sooner you will start trusting yourself. So what if you make mistakes? Who cares?

24. “You must do the thing you think you cannot do.” – Eleanor Roosevelt

The people that can do the things they think they cannot do are the ones who succeed. Following your passion and living your purpose is not always easy.

25. “Action will remove the doubt that theory cannot solve.” – Petryl Hsieh

You can spend your whole life thinking and theorizing, but it is only through action that you gain clarity. I’ve noticed that theory can only take me so far. When I actually start taking action, things are much different than in theory.

26. “Using no way as a way, using no limitation as limitation.” – Bruce Lee

Sometimes you have to be the pioneer. The only limitations you have are the ones you impose on yourself.

27. “It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.” – Confucius

If you want a better life, all you have to do is get started. It doesn’t matter if you believe yourself to be a slow learner, because if you never start, you never get anywhere. It’s better to start than to live a life of regret.

28. “I hear and I forget. I see and I remember. I do and I understand.” – Confucius

This is an excellent follow up to #27. You can try to learn as much as you want, but if you do not take action, you won’t get any results. You cannot know everything before you start, so don’t even try. Just begin and expect mistakes. Learn from them and keep going.

29. “Your work is to discover your work and then with all your heart to give yourself to it.” – Buddha

It can take a while to find your passion, but when you do find it, it’s your duty to give it your all. It’s not enough to find your passion; it takes hard work to make it a reality.

30. “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” – Maria Robinson

Dwelling on past mistakes does you no good. You can change everything today if you want to, or you can keep living the life you’ve always lived. It’s up to you, but remember this: every moment is an opportunity to change your life.

Success

31. “All that we are is the result of what we have thought.” – Buddha

Your thought patterns and beliefs determine your life. If you are not happy with where you are, take a look at what beliefs are holding you back from having the life you want.

32. “Pleasure in the job puts perfection in the work.” – Aristotle

Find your passion and purpose in life. Love what you do and the end result will reflect it. If you do the work with joy, you will have no trouble perfecting every detail.

33. “God helps those who help themselves.” – Benjamin Franklin

This is an excellent way of saying that once you start taking action, the pieces of the puzzle start falling into place. I’ve experienced this first-hand. It wasn’t until I showed the universe I was serious that I started getting “lucky”.

34. “That some achieve great success is proof to all that others can achieve it as well.” – Abraham Lincoln

You can do what you love. There are people just like you, doing what you want to do. I may have different strengths than you, but in the end that doesn’t matter. If I am more tech-savvy than you doesn’t matter. We all have to find our own path.

35. “A jug fills drop by drop.” – Buddha

You do not need a crystal ball. Knowing what steps to take makes life boring. Take life one day at a time. Enjoy the surprises life throws at you.

36. “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.” – Aristotle

Don’t look at successful people and feel like you are not enough. You are comparing yourself to someone who has worked hard at perfecting his craft. All you can do is start. If you want to get good at something, go do it.

37. “Notice that the stiffest tree is most easily cracked, while the bamboo or willow survives by bending with the wind.” – Bruce Lee

Keep an open mind when you are following your passion. There will be surprises and obstacles on your path. What impact they have is determined by you. You have the ability to choose if they are positive or negative. Be flexible. Be like bamboo.

38. “A goal is not always meant to be reached, it often serves simply as something to aim at.” – Bruce Lee

What your goal is doesn’t matter, as long as it is something that inspires you to take action. There are is no reason to be overly serious about what you do. Think back to your childhood years and your playfulness. Emulate it and your life becomes effortless.

39. “The gem cannot be polished without friction, nor man perfected without trials.” – Chinese Proverb

In order for you to be successful, you will have to go through trials. You will make mistakes, you will screw up and you will be scared. It’s a part of life, so stop running away from it and start running towards it.

40. “Everyone who got where he is has had to begin where he was.” – Robert Louis Stevenson

It’s easy to look at someone who’s already rocking it when you yourself haven’t even gotten started. It’s easy to forget that the one you admire has been where you are. It’s easy to forget, so remind yourself of the fact that we are all the same, and if that is true, you can do this as well, even if you doubt yourself.

41. “Fall seven times, Stand up eight.” – Japanese Proverb

The most successful people are the most persistent. When I began my journey with making my passion a reality, I didn’t succeed right away. I spent years and thousands of dollars trying to learn. I didn’t give up, which is why I am here today.

42. “The path to success is to take massive, determined action.” – Tony Robbins

Take action. Take Action. Take action. I can’t say it enough. If you want something, you have to take action. Plan, learn and absorb as much as you want, but without action, you will never get to where you want to be.

43. “Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration. “ – Thomas A. Edison

This is another good quote illustrating the importance of action. How many ideas you have doesn’t matter. The only thing that matters is that you take action!

Wisdom

44. “When the solution is simple, God is answering.” – Albert Einstein

The human mind has a funny tendency of trying to make everything complex. It takes effort to keep things simple. The more stuff you can eliminate from your plate, the more you get done. Focus on simplicity.

45. “Know thyself.” – Plato

We are all different. You have to find how you work and what makes you happy. Stop looking at others for answers and find your own. It takes time, but there’s no rush anywhere. Enjoy the process, because that’s what life is about.

46. “If you do not change direction, you may end up where you are heading.” – Lao Tzu

If you’re unhappy, you can’t expect something or someone outside of yourself to fix it. You are the only one responsible for your life. If you want to change and start living with passion, you are the one that has to act.

47. “Without feelings of respect, what is there to distinguish men from beasts?” – Confucius

There is so much war going on in the world. We need to start treating each other with respect. We are the same species. We are brothers and sisters living on the same planet. We are in this together. Everything that separates us from each other should be reconsidered.

48. “Only the shallow know themselves.” – Oscar Wilde

There is always more you can learn about yourself. Personal development is a never-ending journey. Once you think you know what you’re all about, life will throw a curve-ball at you and you’ll discover new, subtle facets.

49. “Wisely, and slow. They stumble that run fast.” – William Shakespeare

Take it easy. Once you’ve rushed enough in your life, you will realize that there is nowhere to go. The need to go fast comes from a feeling of lack. This feeling can only be remedied from where it originates—the inside.

50. “When I do good, I feel good. When I do bad, I feel bad. That’s my religion.” – Abraham Lincoln

This should be the religion of all people on earth. What good is a religion if it separates us? Who cares if your god is better than mine if all it leads to is hatred and war? It’s time to sit down and think about what we’re doing.

51. “Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.” – Buddha

You may think that being successful or having something will make you happy, but do you really believe that? Once you have strived enough, you may start questioning what society has taught you. We do need the basics, but no more. If you want to be happy and at peace, look inward.

52. “If you spend too much time thinking about a thing, you’ll never get it done.” – Bruce Lee

Do not overanalyze. Err on the side of taking too much action, rather than thinking too much. Most people are thinkers, because it is easy, but few are doers. It’s hard, frustrating and sometimes painful, but it works.

53. “Do you want to know who you are? Don’t ask. Act! Action will delineate and define you.” – Thomas Jefferson

You have to beat this point into your head: take action, and do it now! The stars will never align. Circumstances will never be perfect. The sooner you get started, the better off you will be. You will have to make mistakes, because it is the only way.

Truth

54. “Simplicity is the key to brilliance.” – Bruce Lee

The human mind wants to complicate. It takes awareness to keep things simple. It is only when you embrace simplicity that you start to realize how much you are capable of. This is what Everett did, the author of Art of Being Minimalist.

55. “Be Content with what you have; rejoice in the way things are. When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you.” – Lao Tzu

You already have everything you need. Be grateful for the things you already have. It’s easy to get caught up in the drama of life. Focusing on negativity is easy, but focusing on the positive is what makes a difference and spurs you into action.

56. “The superior man acts before he speaks, and afterwards speaks according to his action.” – Confucius

Instead of telling people what to do, go and do it first and then speak. I have had more than a few people tell me that they were going to do something, and they never did. It doesn’t leave a good impression.

57. “We don’t stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing.” – George Bernard Shaw

Always maintain the beginner’s mind. Whenever you think you’ve got it, you’re mistaken. You are never too old to play. You are never too old to have fun. It all comes down to your perspective.

58. “We acquire the strength we have overcome.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

When you face your fears, you grow stronger. Each time you do something you’re afraid of, it becomes easier. This has been true in my life, so I have no doubt that the same will be true for you. When you start out, it’s hard, but it gets easier. Trust me.

59. “Every choice you make has an end result.” – Zig Ziglar

Be aware of the actions you take and the consequences they have. It’s easy to act in haste. It’s easy to do selfish things. They may look good in the short-term, but in the long-term you’ll be digging your own grave. The same goes for going after your passion. It may be hard in the short-term, but it is more than worth it.

60. “I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed.” – Michael Jordan

When Michael Jordan was a kid, he was horrible at basketball, but he kept failing, practicing and trying, which is why he became great. If you want to make something happen in your life, you have to start failing, trying and moving forward.

Life

61. “Life is change. Growth is optional. Choose wisely.” – Unknown

Everything around you and inside you is constantly changing. The people that resist this process are the ones constantly whining and complaining. They are in constant internal agony. Keep going, be curious and remember to breathe.

62. “Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished.” – Lao Tzu

There is no rush anywhere. The perfection of life lies in the ability to accept the perceived imperfection. This is why I recommend you find your passion, because life is a process that never ends. If you find something you love doing, you will be at peace. If you strive for a big payday, you will be striving even when you hit your goal.

63. “A good traveler has no fixed plans, and is not intent on arriving.” – Lao Tzu

Have plans, but do not be rigid. Be present and focus on each task. Thinking about an end goal will cause stress, because your mind is focusing on the future, on lack, instead of focusing on what’s in front of you.

64. “What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others.” – Confucius

This is such a simple quote, yet so powerful. If everyone lived by this, the world would be a better place. Treat others with respect and kindness, because that is how you would like to be treated, right?

65. “One day your life will flash before your eyes. Make sure it’s worth watching.” – Unknown

One day you will die. Why not make your life worth it? Every fear you have will disappear. They only exist because you have given credence to them. They exist because you allow them to.

66. “Sometimes the road less traveled is less traveled for a reason” – Jerry Seinfeld

You don’t have to re-invent the wheel if you’re starting something new. It’s perfectly okay to learn from someone who’s already been where you want to be.

67. “Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other” – Abraham Lincoln

You determine your success. No tools, strategies or courses can do it for you. If someone has resolution, but bad tools, he will succeed. But it someone has poor resolution and the best tools in the world, I certainly wouldn’t bet on him or her.

68. “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.” – Plato

We’re all going through this journey together, and we all have our own problems. Remember to be kind. Remember others, because you are not the only one that has problems. Focus your energy on being kind and helping. You will see a difference in your life.

69. “People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within.” – Romana L. Anderson

There is nowhere to go. There is nowhere you have to be. Happiness comes from within and looking for it outside of yourself will only lead you deeper down the rabbit hole.

70. “He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life.” – Muhammed Ali

You have to be willing to take risks. I’m not talking about going for broke with a slim chance of success. I am talking about jumping into the unknown and going after the things that excite you, even if you are afraid.

Time

71. “Procrastination is the bad habit of putting of until the day after tomorrow what should have been done the day before yesterday.” – Napoleon Hill

Take whatever you’re procrastinating on and do it right now. Get into the habit of using your awareness of procrastination as a trigger to take action. When you make it a habit, you are no longer slave to that which we call procrastination.

72. “The only reason for time is so that everything doesn’t happen at once.” – Albert Einstein

Time is an interesting beast, because it is relative. Put your hand on a stove and time moves slowly. Watch an excellent movie with someone you love and time flies by.

73. “Beware the barrenness of a busy life. “ – Socrates

You can do a lot of busy work. Actually doing the work is when you get results, but it’s hard and we tend to procrastinate a lot. If you’re just going to be busy, you might as well do something else. Do something that matters or nothing at all.

74. “Take time for all things: great haste makes great waste. “ – Benjamin Franklin

Remind yourself to be present with whatever you are doing. Keep your focus on one thing. Avoid multi-tasking. It doesn’t allow you to get into the flow and dip your soul into the eternal nature of all that is.

75. “Time you enjoyed wasting is not wasted time.” – T.S. Elliot

There is nothing wrong with wasting time. I tend to force myself to work, so I’ve had to learn that wasting some time and having fun isn’t a deadly sin. It’s essential to a happy life.

76. “Don’t let the past steal your present” – Cherralea Morgen

We all dwell on the past too much. I know I do. Don’t let your past determine your future. Focus on what you want to do, and go do it. Release the past and step into your potential.

77. “Time spent laughing is time spent with the gods.” – Japanese Proverb

Last, but not least, remember to enjoy your life. Remember to be grateful for the little things. Remember to be kind to the people around you and remember to follow your heart.

opportunity

2010-06-21T18:21:00.000-07:00

Dubai is an opportunity-knocked experience worth taking.
Now, another opportunity knocked, a new endeavor....I would like to thank my dear friend for entrusting this to me.

Maybe we should try it for 2 weeks? and then rio, if you like, you can let us know if you'd like to continue... I know you will ":) It will be awesome!

Thank you Be and thank you to my virtual boss.
Officially started today :-)

stranger

2010-06-21T18:01:00.000-07:00

Isn’t it amazing how a person who was once just a stranger,

suddenly meant the world to you? -Pae Edejer

and another acceptance...

2010-06-19T22:50:00.000-07:00

higit kaninoman... kayo ang may pinakagustong makita ulit akong masaya dahil kayo ang kasama ko noong mga panahong naging hobby ko ang pagiyak at nandun kayo para pasayahin ako at palaging ipaalala sa aking OK LANG YAN...salamat sa inyo!!!

we're so happy for u
basta tandaan mo ang importante masaya kaung 2
sana mgtuloytuloy n yan basta happy k happy rin ako
true friends just want to see u happy-mommy

diz iz it!?????!!!!!!
kilig to the bones ako :D
nid ko yta read repeatedly kc kilig ako e.-ninang

naiyak ako dito ah, theres no harm in trying ta wrio. . ang masasabi ko follow ur heart na, dont think what will others say at saka matagal na pala syang may itinatagong damdamin sa u?GOSH.. .aba matindi yan. . .abangan ang sususnod na kabanata-nanay

long distance friendship

2010-06-19T19:31:00.000-07:00

I had a chat with a dear friend yesterday, even miles away, she never fails to make me feel she's with me on the journeys of my heart...

kung ako ikaw....i'll go for it
make it a point na you speak about your differences and assure each other na hindi magiging hadlang sa inyo yan
take the risk... if you get hurt again..then be it...you'll never know what you missed if u haven't tried...life is a risk naman d ba??...but you'll never know, he might be the true love you've always deserved
go for it and be happy...you deserve to be happy

missing Dubai

2010-06-19T18:58:00.000-07:00

the people that made me feel I am part of their family

the single ladies

stretched limousines everywhere

my first shawarma ever in my 30 years of existence. Thanks to She's persistence!

the sweets of the Highness'

my favorite creamy pasta at Golden Fork

Pak and I's movie dates

like stretched limousines, high-end cars are just around the corner

AJ and I's dates at the park.. this is one of the most memorable because AJ got bruised because of Tita Rio

AJ and her charm on the streets of Dubai ... this on Valentine's day

white eggplants

Ryan and his band

perya everyday!

makulit na tala

2010-06-19T18:56:00.000-07:00

i love mommy and daddy - misha samantha

2010-06-19T18:42:00.001-07:00

marry your daughter

2010-06-17T17:54:00.000-07:00

Sir, I’m a bit nervous
‘Bout being here today
Still not real sure what I’m going to say
So bare with me please
If I take up too much of your time
See in this box is a ring for your oldest
She’s my everything and all that I know is
It would be such a relief if I knew that we were on the same side
Very soon I’m hoping that I..

Can marry your daughter
And make her my wife
I want her to be the only girl that I love for the rest of my life
Give her the best of me till the day that I die (yeah)
I’m gonna marry your princess
Make her my queen
She’ll be the most beautiful bride that I’ve ever seen
Can’t wait to smile
When she walks down that aisle
On the arm of her father
On the day that I marry your daughter

She’s been here every step
Since the day that we met
(Scared to death to think what would happen if she ever left)
So don’t you ever worry about me
Ever treating her bad
I’ve got most of my vows done so far..
(So bring on the better or worse)
And till death do us part
There’s no doubt in my mind
It’s time, I’m ready to start
I swear to you from my heart

Gonna marry your daughter
And make her my wife
I want her to be the only girl that I love for the rest of my life
Give her the best of me till the day that I die (yeah)
I’m gonna marry your princess
Make her my queen
She’ll be the most beautiful bride that I’ve ever seen
Can’t wait to smile
When she walks down that aisle
On the arm of her father
On the day that I marry your daughter

The first time I saw her
I swear I knew I’d say I do

I’m gonna marry your daughter
And make her my wife
I want her to be the only girl that I love for the rest of my life
And give her the best of me till the day that I die
I’m gonna marry your princess
Make her my queen
She’ll be the most beautiful bride that I’ve ever seen
Can’t wait to smile
As she walks down that aisle
On the arm of her father
On the day that I marry your daughter

Excited

2010-06-14T19:56:00.000-07:00

...to see if I can now rely on my gut feeling. Though I heart Pau Gasol, my cheer goes to Celtics. 1 more win and I'll also have my win over my bets with Papa and O. Hmmm... beginning to love...basketball :-)

...to see Eclipse. Watching these Twilight series always gives me memorable FIRST TIMES. Twilight, first time I watched movie alone. New Moon, first movie Pak and I watched in Dubai. And this time, Eclipse, another first time :-)

...to bond with F na kailangan ng "maboteng" usapan this coming Friday. pour it all out...i will be there...

...to be on the corporate world again..

...to see what the future holds for us...

far beyond compare

2010-06-14T18:42:00.000-07:00

"The Greatest Love" award goes to...

my dear friend "A"

I am so happy to see her again after more than a year. Me and O went there to pay her, her daughter and her Mama a surprise visit. My old cp where her number was stored crashed, so I don't have any means to inform her that I wanted to see her. Going there, I have doubts if I am on the right track but even if I close my eyes, my feet are very sure where they're heading. After several "tao po's", they finally recognized my voice. "Rio, ikaw ba yan?" "Yes me dear!", I excitedly replied. Tight hugs and sweet kisses for my dearest in Bocaue.

She shared her greatest acts of love for her greatest love...di ko kayang gawin ata yun. I told her mama-"Ma, ang galing ng pagpapalaki mo dito sa taong to, ang tindi magmahal!" I was all ears as she let it all out, I was also teary eyed for somehow I saw myself before on her situation but hers is on a far beyond compare, deeper level. On a lighter note, her UTI and broncho love story made me laugh out loud! Tama si Jovit! Literally, too much love will kill you...Iba kayo! Keep the love alive despite the distance and the hindrance! I look up to both of you. Sacrifice is an understatement of your love for each other.

We ended the day with exchange of texts:

Rio: Bahay na kami friend! Salamat talaga! Tuloy mo yang pagiging sexy at mapagmahal! Luv u!
A: Kulang ang oras natin...Nxt tym bago tumilaok manok and2 k n ha...Luv u 2..Good luck sa new ________ ... Gogogo! Salamat sa dalaw!

I enjoyed the short-but-sweet day. I was able to spend it with one of my dearest friends and at the same time this has been another opportunity for me to know him well. Thank you both...

From Richard

2010-06-14T18:26:00.000-07:00

I'll take care of you
Don't be sad, don't be blue
'Cause I'll never break your heart in two
'Cause I'll take care of you

I'll kiss your tears away
I'll end your lonely days
All that I'm really trying to say
Is I'll take care of you

I want you to know
That I love you so
I'm proud to tell the world you're mine
I've said it before,
I'll say it once more,
You'll be in my heart 'till the end of time

I'll take care of you,
Don't be sad, don't be blue
Just count on me your whole life through
And I'll take care of you

wow!

2010-06-11T21:38:00.000-07:00

Yesterday, off we went to Batangas for Lola's 1st death anniv. Need to be there on her anniv because work didn't permit me to be there when she rested in peace. I missed her kisses with amoy everytime we visit her. Even if you're gone now, memories of my childhood when I lived there with you on your laid-back nest to take care of me as mama and papa needed to work, will forever rest in my heart.

Wow!!! loads of indian mango and avocado...yumyum!!! Special because they're my fave (especially avocado) and picked by my cousins and dear Tita Dolly!

Rio: Ma, halika! Tignan mo! Puno ng avocado ba yun???
Ma: Ay oo...Sige sabihin ko kay Tita Dolly

Tada! Kanina pa daw nakaready di pa man ako nagsasabi...yey!

Rio: Love you Tita Dolly! Salamat po
Tita: Basta ikaw...alam ko namang favorite mo yan :-)

Wow!!! nice to see my Titos and Titas and cousins after a long time. They warm welcomed me with questions and hopes of "Kelan ka magaasawa?" I just smiled... :-) Nice to see also my nephews and nieces...back then, my cousins and I are the ones playing and running everywhere...this time, it's the next generation of Umandap's turn to shower us with cute acts, innocent smiles and contagious laughter :-)

i heart pau gasol

2010-06-10T00:50:00.000-07:00

For Rio

2010-06-07T19:07:00.000-07:00

Knowing that there's one person who understands and loves you is more valuable than all the gold in the world. - Ara

..if I would have to live my life again in a different way, I'll choose to live a simple one...riding on my rusty bicycle yet holding hands with that one very special person whom i can call my endless love...- Mykee

To love people you don't have to kiss everyone you meet. To love people you don't necessarily have to hand out rice bowls in the Third World. It is judging people less. It is allowing them to wear what they want, live how they want and be who they are without our criticism. - Andrew Matthews

We crucify ourselves between two thieves: Regret for yesterday and fear of tomorrow. - Fulton Oursler

Where you are now is exactly where God wants you to be. - Bo Sanchez

ahhh...lahat ng nababasa ko lately so timely... so true... so much for me :-)

From Charice

2010-06-06T20:59:00.000-07:00

If I wrote a note to God, I would speak what’s in my soul. I’d ask for all the hate to be swept away… for love to overflow. I’d pour my heart out on each page.

I’d say… give us strength to make it through. Help us find love coz love is overdue. It seems like so much is going wrong on this road we’re on.

I would say please help us find our way. End all the bitterness, put some tenderness in our hearts.

Need help from you. Grant us the faith to carry on. Give us hope when it seems all hope is gone.

smile on my heart

2010-06-06T19:14:00.000-07:00

woke up as early as 430, got ready and dressed up on a comfy getup as this will be a whole day lakwatsa

at 6 am someone knocked on our door, the very same person who knocked on the door of my life 7 years ago... back then, i didn't let him enter but after all...his feelings didn't falter

after blessings from mama and papa "ingat kayo" off we went to our next stop- to her mommy who also blessed us with "magiingat kayo, pagpalain nawa kayo ng Diyos" while teary eyed...ahhhh...so touching...i was introduced first time and her mommy was not able to hide her tears of joy as she finally met the girl who gives joy to her son

before taking the 3 hour trip, we charged ourselves with heavy breakfast...our first meal together :-)

then the trip- the very memorable trip...no need to describe and document the trip...its written inside

finally we arrived at jho's...not visiting her, but ahlet this time...i missed her so much which was very obvious with my tight hugs..bonding to the max with aj and adie and their clan who never fail to make me feel their warm welcome :-) thank you so much! also, i met ahlet's special someone, she met mine (???) , too..we are happy for each other... we were there for each other when love matters didn't work for me and for her and so there's noone in this world who would want to see our hearts smile again but US :-) so happy for you pak! make it work!

as much as i wanted to stay longer, we have to say good bye with promises that we will see each other again...

then the trip back to manila is again a trip to remember...

we did not want the day to end so we had an impromptu glimpse of the place where he grew up as Pau Gasol according to him (wahhh!! yabang!! no facial similarity, I think it's only the height). ...he saw familiar faces ...hmmm..."asawa mo???" he only replied with a shy, meaningful smile :-)

tictac tictac...the long day ended...i felt the tiredness but it's ok...i slept with a smile on my heart :-)

June bride

2010-06-02T20:08:00.000-07:00

June kicks off !Rain is in the air and also, love is in the air!

As i'm glued on the tube, here are some portions on tying the knot episodes that caught my attention

after getting married, everyday's an adventure kasi you find out something new with each other...my wedding day is the happiest day of my life and the most memorable part is when i danced with my dad...you stick to the budget- Ciara Sotto

you got that glow! - Suzi Entrata to Ciara Sotto

“Mahal na mahal kita. I really treasure our relationship, and sana we grow old together… I really want to have a family with you and… I’ll make you as happy as I can. Sana we will be forever happy together.” - recently engaged Priscilla Meirelles' message for her fiance, John Estrada

to get married nowadays on the Church will require you to have a whopping 400k. to 3M - News whoa!!!

whew! walang masamang mangarap :-)

from a dear friend

2010-05-31T19:12:00.000-07:00

grabe sister, i'm so happy for you...

..excited na ako makita kayo together:)

ang point of view ko dyan, tama yung pananaw nya sa buhay sister..it's all about TRUE LOVE...

..nakakatuwa after all these years, nandyan pa din sya para sayo nag aantay lang pala na magkaron sya ng chance sayo..

...gusto ba sya ni misha?, hehe

say it

2010-05-10T18:43:00.000-07:00

Thank you for the attention...
You are making my day...
You remind me that love's still fair...
but...BLOW YOUR SECRET OPEN WIDE...SAY IT!!!

My new models

2010-04-23T01:15:00.001-07:00

Misha Samantha's 2nd month

2010-04-23T01:10:00.001-07:00

Missing AJ

2010-04-13T00:16:00.001-07:00

undecided

2010-04-12T23:43:00.000-07:00

Dear Lord,

Please make me wake up one day with a sound mind and a clear decision on things that I must and need to do.

Lead me Lord, lead me by the hand
And make me face the rising sun
Comfort me through all the pain
That life may bring
There's no other hope
That I can lean upon
Lead me Lord Lead me all my life
Walk by me, walk by me across
The lonely road that I may face
Take my arms and let your hadn
Show me the way
Show the way to live inside your heart
All my days, all my life

You are my light
You're the lamb upon my feet
All the time my Lord
I need You there
You are my light I cannot live alone
Let me stay
By Your guiding love
All through my life
Lead me Lord
Lead me Lord Even though at times
I'd rather go alone my way
Help me take the right direction
Take Your road Lead me Lord
And never leave my side
All my days
All my life
You are my light
You're the lamb upon my feet
All the time my Lord
I need You there
You are my light I (just) cannot live alone
Let me stay By Your guiding love
All through my life
All through my days Lead me, O Lord Lead me Lord

good to see you again

2010-04-12T23:31:00.000-07:00

...MG and Lala...minus PM, Fubs and Ems! It seems like it was just yesterday that we last saw each other. It's good to know that despite the distance, our friendship didn't falter. Indeed, you're friends for keeps :D

...Macel and Omar...plus King and Gagab! King, you had me at your "ILABURIO!" Nay, the overseas call was so touching! You guys never fail to make me feel I'm part of the Ranadas-Ilagans. Love you guys!

...Mama Joycee...still the same you...cry baby...i know u just really felt sorry for what happened...waiting for our next bonding, this time with Kae.

...Pwet!...thank you for the surprise! I was touched! really!

first bonding

2010-04-12T23:11:00.000-07:00

proud mommy

cutest

Mama, Lheng, and I had our first mass and first bonding with Sam. So many changes, like, we have now our new malling buddy on stroller, infants wear section is now an addition to our shopping agenda and we are now frequent elevator riders because of our dear princess :D
I had a great time.

Bitter

2010-04-09T06:44:00.000-07:00

Dear Rio,

Refuse to be bitter. It's a poison that you don't want even a single drop in your life. If someone has betrayed you, pity them and wish them the best. You move on.

Your Encourager,
God

P.S. Forgiveness is one of the greatest things I've ever invented, Rio. Use it often.

finally

2010-03-23T09:07:00.001-07:00

after deep thought
after gaining all the courage in the world
and after 2 months of keeping it secret from 'em
i was able to finally talk to them...

i expected it to be a hard acceptance
but God is good
it's the other way around
they are excited
they are happy
they made it easy for me

i love them and they are really my true treasures...

when all else fails...i am assured that they will catch me...

see you

Here comes the sun

2010-03-09T07:19:00.001-08:00

Here comes the sun!
Get out of the closet, Sleevelesss and shorts!
Move over, jackets, shawls, and boots!
Til our next bonding, Winter!

De-di

2010-03-09T07:15:00.001-08:00

Cute cute ni Adie...

Below are some of her few words at 1 yr and 5 months.

Ha-yeeeeeeee - Hi!
Ba-yeeeeeeee - Bye!
Wow - when amazed
Aww - when hurt
De-di - milk
Da-di - his dad
De-ti - dirty

The bright side

2010-03-03T12:37:00.000-08:00

Thank you Richard!

Question

2010-03-03T12:25:00.000-08:00

Claire and I had a nice dine and chat with Martin. Same fate. Same sentiments. Among us, the question is..who will get it FIRST? I think there should be no question, but a hopeful statement- We should all get it!!! We'll see...We'll see..

Misha Samantha Canio de Leon

2010-03-03T11:30:00.000-08:00

February 23, 2010... 5:12 AM... Chinese General Hospital... 7.1 lbs...

Welcome to the world! Mommy Meow, Daddy Tabs, Tita Rio, Lolo Willie and Lola Reg are all so happy! First apo in the family! Lucky you!

misha is 1 week old already... i can't get enough of her.... loving every moment of being a mommy...- mommy meow

is so addicted to Sam! viewed her pics and videos for d nth tym.. d cutest! :-) U r worth d wait..our bundle of joy..our angel..Sam is such a dear! for bringing joy and luv into our lives! makes me want to go home...- tita rio

Victors

2010-03-03T11:01:00.000-08:00

TJ Giants had a taste of sweet victory as they swept the Aces on a 4-0 standing.

itsmekrisaquino as a proud wifey quotes "Purefoods is All-Filipino champion! Na-cry ako. So proud of James but missed my Mom so much. She was the super PBA fan. Never missed a game. She'd have been so proud of James!", "Thank u God! James is best player of the All Filipino conference!!!"

Kudos to the team! Thanks to TFC! Had fun watching with PAK..so many WOOHOOS !!

hmmm..backtrack..was an avid fan of Patrimonio and Lastimosa during my elem days. don't know the reason why i liked the team back then, i do not even know the nitty-gritty of basketball except shooting...hmmm...maybe i just love eating hotdogs? hehe...whatever the reason is, i think i made the right choice!

Seeking for the reason

2010-03-03T10:28:00.000-08:00

Mahal kita kasi

2010-03-03T10:24:00.000-08:00

-highly recommended feel good song

Bangin ka ba? Kasi
Nahuhulog na ako sa’yo, naman kasi
Unggoy ka ba? Kasi
Sumasabit ka sa puso ko, naman kasi
Pustiso ka ba? Kasi
You know I can’t smile without you
Pagod na pagod na ako
Maghapon ka na kasing tumatakbo sa isipan ko
Kasi naman kasi

Mahal kita
Bagay tayong dalawa
Papicture nga
Para mapadevelop kita
Hindi tayo tao, hindi rin tayo hayop
Bagay tayo, bagay talaga

Papupulis kita, kasi
Ninakaw mo ang puso ko, naman kasi
Kuto ka ba? Kasi
Palagi ka sa ulo ko
Naman kasi
Apoy ka ba? Kasi
Alab-alab I love you

Magsalbabida ka nga
Kasi baka malunod ka sa pag-ibig ko
Kasi naman kasi

Mahal kita
Bagay tayong dalawa
Papicture nga
Pare mapadevelop kita
Hindi tayo tao, hindi rin tayo hayop
Bagay tayo, bagay talaga

Kamukha mo si Papa P, Papa P (ding dong)
P Papa P, Papa P
P Papa P, Papa P (ding dong)

Exam ka ba, kasi
Sasagutin kita agad-agad, naman kasi
Drugs ka ba? Kakaadik ka naman kasi
Kulangot ka ba? You’re really hard to get
Posporo ka ba? E di posporo rin ako
Parang match
Kasi naman kasi
Mahal kita
Bagay tayong dalawa
Papicture nga
Pare madevelop kita

Hindi tayo tao, hindi rin tayo hayop
Bagay tayo, bagay talaga

Pustiso ka nga, kasi
I really really can’t smile without you…

Act

2010-02-06T05:09:00.000-08:00

Dear Rio,

Jump in. Do it. Unless you move, nothing happens.

I empower you,
God

P.S. Plans are good, Rio. Thinking about your plans is good. Talking about your plans is good. But unless you act, your plans mean nothing.

Good side of twitter

2010-02-05T04:41:00.000-08:00

RevRunWisdom

Life's challenges are only there 2 show u that ur stronger, more capable & more creative then you ever thought!

143redangel

"The Lord is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer; my God, my strength, in whom I will trust;. . . my stronghold"

thelovestrings

When you limit yourself, you also limit God.

thelovestrings

"Dear God, I need your love to guide me through."

Carried

2010-02-05T04:09:00.001-08:00

Footprints in the Sand

One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord.

Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky.

In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand.

Sometimes there were two sets of footprints,

other times there were one set of footprints.

This bothered me because I noticed

that during the low periods of my life,

when I was suffering from

anguish, sorrow or defeat,

I could see only one set of footprints.

So I said to the Lord,

"You promised me Lord,

that if I followed you,

you would walk with me always.

But I have noticed that during

the most trying periods of my life

there have only been one

set of footprints in the sand.

Why, when I needed you most,

you have not been there for me?"

The Lord replied,

"The times when you have

seen only one set of footprints in the sand,

is when I carried you."

Dear Lord

2010-02-05T03:21:00.000-08:00

Show me the way...

Lead me where you want me to be...stay or go away...

I know you have plans for me after this jaw-dropping yet expected news...history's repeating itself...before he's with me...now, I have to face this all alone...strength from no one but You...

Make me understand and make me strong enough...

As Katrina said "Heaven's high!" and as Nanay Lei said "Prayers can move mountains". Also, Thank you Kae and Joycee for the love miles away.

In time...I will reveal...As of now I am still OK and hopin' will still be OK..Just praying that luck and God's love won't leave my side...Lord kayo na pong bahala...Despite this, please send my love to mama, papa, Lheng and Sam...

Date with AJ

2010-02-01T10:53:00.000-08:00

"Tita Rio, ang saya saya ko!"...Poof!!! it all ended with a blag!!! nadapa si AJ!

RT: had fun today! surf's up and bolt with aj...park and another park still with aj...but sad coz she's hurt...sowi aj, mommy & daddy :-( 2:39 AM Jan 23rd from TweetDeck

We were there

2010-01-16T08:20:00.000-08:00

Burj Khalifa (Arabic: برج خليفة‎ "Khalifa Tower"),formerly known as Burj Dubai, is a skyscraper in Dubai, United Arab Emirates, and the tallest man-made structure ever built, at 828 m (2,717 ft).Construction began on 21 September 2004, with the exterior of the structure completed on 1 October 2009. The building officially opened on 4 January 2010.The building is part of the 2 km² (490-acre) flagship development called Downtown Burj Khalifa at the "First Interchange" along Sheikh Zayed Road, near Dubai's main business district.

The tower's architecture and engineering were performed by Skidmore, Owings, and Merrill of Chicago. Adrian Smith, who worked with Skidmore, Owings and Merrill until 2006, was the chief architect, and Bill Baker was the chief structural engineer for the project. The primary contractor was Samsung C&T of South Korea, who also built the Taipei 101 and Petronas Twin Towers. Major subcontractors included Belgian group Besix and Arabtec from the UAE. Turner Construction Company was chosen as the construction project manager. Under UAE law, the Contractor and the Engineer of Record are jointly and severally liable for the performance of Burj Khalifa. Therefore, by adoption of SOM's design and by being appointed as Architect and Engineer of Record, Hyder Consulting was legally the Design Consultant for the tower.

The total cost for the Burj Khalifa project was about US$1.5 billion; and for the entire new "Downtown Dubai", US$20 billion.Mohamed Ali Alabbar, the Chairman of Emaar Properties, speaking at the Council on Tall Buildings and Urban Habitat 8th World Congress, said in March 2009 that the price of office space at Burj Khalifa had reached US$4,000 per sq ft (over US$43,000 per m²) and that the Armani Residences, also in Burj Khalifa, were selling for US$3,500 per sq ft (over US$37,500 per m²). The completion of the tower coincided with a worldwide economic slump and overbuilding, causing it to be described as "the latest ... in [a] string of monuments to architectural vacancy."

Thank you

2010-01-01T08:09:00.000-08:00

from goddessven

from carlos

To my housemates

2010-01-01T07:55:00.001-08:00

Thank you for being so caring while I'm unwell physically and emotionally.

Physically-paalis kami ng bahay - "Isuot mong jacket ung may hood...", "Bukas ka na lang magsimba, mahirap..." ...awww! yun lang yet sweeeettt :-)

Emotionally-you were all ears and all hearts as you listen and share with my emotions. Love you guys!

Indulgence

2010-01-01T06:04:00.000-08:00

Indulge with Patchi courtesy of Sherille's special someone awaiting revelation. On our next CG, dapat malasing ka namin...and I'll make you spill it! Yum yum Patchi! More more more!!!

I miss Starbucks! Christmas season back home means Starbucks indulgence not only for its addictive taste and the bonding it brings which never fails, but also for everybody's much desired planner! Kaya naman, after I met my good friend, Irene, while strolling at the mall, nagpapansin sa kin si Starbucks and I said yes to the invitation. The tambay was worth my time and my dirhams. Love it!

Indulge at last minute Christmas shopping for little somethings to my loved ones here in Dubai. Ope u liked it! The card was so me-pink and cat.

And when we talk about indulgence, how can we forget food!!! On one of our tambays before attending Simbang gabi, Sherille introduced this Lamb shawarma. Ma-sa-rap!!!!

Though Christmas is so associated with this word, Indulgence, we should not forget the true essence of Christmas- the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ. And to be with Him on His celebration, I promised to complete Simbang gabi and I made it! Wish will be granted! I am claiming it! Will cherish the Christmas Carols, Exchange gift giving to a stranger, Tambay muna kina She and Claire hours before attending the mass, Nice chat with A after, kainan sa simbahan minutes before the mass, and the cool and crisp winter breeze. Feels like home as Hundreds of Pinoys flocked to St Mary's Church. To all of us... Good job!

Winter

2010-01-01T05:52:00.000-08:00

Love it or hate it- winter in Dubai!

Advantage-Japorms! Hoody jackets, Turtleneck, Shawl, Boots!!!
Downside-Sickness :-(

Sam!

2010-01-01T05:38:00.000-08:00

I wanted it to be Sam! However, her mom and dad already came up with a name... Mika Charlemagne to be nicknamed with Misha... Practice...one..two...three.. Misha! Misha! Misha! Hmmm...sige na nga cutie din naman..I'll just reserve SAM on mine someday...

Looking forward

2009-12-11T09:21:00.000-08:00

to complete simbang gabi. a little sacrifice for me to have this christmasy feel.

to becoming a tita/ninang to my first pamangkin! had a good chat with the excited soon-to-be mommy. thanks sis for all the words of love and encouragement! c u on the 1st bday!

to see you play the drums again. Nice gig last nyt! Had fun with the ladies :-) everybody's moment :-) and I quote @goddessven -

B R E A K- laugh out loud, party all nyt long, drink till u get dizzy, dance like no one's watching, sing 2 ur hearts content or kiss torrdly!

to our next road trip when you come back as you promised the day you left.

to meet you...

to know the reasons... Give me a reason...

Today

2009-12-01T12:25:00.000-08:00

I did the forbidden

I was out of bounds

I was weak to let it happen, yet strong enough to let it stop...

Please don't make me fall

Also for today-

I did the needful

I was on the right track

I need all the strength in the world.

Please don't let me down.

Eid al Adha

2009-11-25T13:54:00.000-08:00

Eid al-Adha (Arabic: عيد الأضحى‎ ‘Īdu l-’Aḍḥā) "Festival of Sacrifice" or "Greater Eid" is a holiday celebrated by Muslims (including the Druze) worldwide to commemorate the willingness of Ibrahim to sacrifice his son Ismael as an act of obedience to God.

For this, another long weekend!

First stop. Global village. Ate taho, Rode on a Ferris Wheel. Pictures pictures pictures. Bonus is- it's Winter time in Dubai! Yey! Loving staying outside more!

And as of this blogging, having a refresher-watching Twilight in prep for tomorrow's New Moon bonding with Lhet.

New Moon...2012...

to be continued...2 more days...

then Bump car...ATV driving...

then off to Sharjah!

Happy weekend!

Spice gurls

2009-11-25T13:47:00.000-08:00

Late post...

Last week-Sherille's bday

Dine at Delmon Hotel
House partey
Pictorial
In pajamas
zzzzzzzzzzz

Brekky (ala's term) hotdog and itlog
Room clean up
Get ready
Kulot! luv it!
Party proper
Videoke
a ummm

Had fun with the ladies.

Bro!

2009-11-14T03:35:00.000-08:00

Kung kailan pinakamadilim
Ang mga tala ay mas nagniningning
Gaano man kakapal ang ulap
Sa likod nito ay may liwanag

Ang liwanag na ito
Nasa ‘ting lahat
Mas sinag ang bawat pusong bukas
Sa init ng mga yakap
Maghihilom ang lahat ng sugat

Ang nagsindi nitong ilaw
Walang iba kundi ikaw
Salamat sa liwanag mo
Muling magkakakulay ang pasko
Salamat sa liwanag mo
Muling magkakakulay ang pasko

Tayo ang ilaw sa madilim na daan
Pagkakapit bisig ngayon higpitan
Dumaan man sa malakas na alon
Lahat tayo’s makakaahon

Ang liwanag na ito
Nasa ‘ting lahat
Mas sinag ang bawat pusong bukas
Sa init ng mga yakap
Maghihilom ang lahat ng sugat

Ang nagsindi nitong ilaw
Walang iba kundi ikaw
Salamat sa liwanag mo
Muling magkakakulay ang pasko
Salamat sa liwanag mo
Muling magkakakulay ang pasko

Kikislap ang pag-asa
Kahit kanino man
Dahil ikaw Bro, dahil ikaw Bro
Dahil ikaw Bro
Ang star ng pasko

Salamat sa liwanag mo
Muling magkakakulay ang pasko
Salamat sa liwanag mo
Muling magkakakulay ang pasko

Ang nagsindi nitong ilaw
Walang iba kundi ikaw
Salamat sa liwanag mo
Muling magkakakulay ang pasko

Dahil ikaw Bro, dahil ikaw Bro
Dahil ikaw Bro
Ang star ng pasko!

This song and our Christmas tree in the house is my ONLY reminder that Christmas is approaching fast as a rabbit. If not for TFC and the tree, I will not be having this Christmas feel. My Christmas this year is very different from last year's. As early as November, schedules are already tight. This time-No more brain storming, extracting of creative juices and practices for Christmas presentations. No more team, department and company Christmas parties. No more barkada kitakits. No more family reunions at Batangas, Pampanga Novaliches and Pasig. No more Christmas with Mama, Papa, Lheng, Tala and Tisoy. No more simbang gabi with teammates or with family. Buti na lang I gave it all last year...But still, it brings me down knowing that this time, I am miles away from all of you... :-(

Free free free

2009-11-14T02:56:00.000-08:00

Ehly Buendia-pic from @goddessven @ Rock Festival

Thursday nyt- Free inuman with Inuman sessionistas.

Friday nyt - Went to Naif for shopping. Thanks to Jho and Mek. Expert hagglers! Balik tayo!

- FREE TICKETS! Friday the 13th Rock Festival in Dubai Festival City! Thanks Badz! Savings 100 AED.

- Free entrance at Chikka Grill. Thanks Tina! Savings 30 AED.

Indeed, the best things in life are free :-) Thank you Bro! Will visit you in a while :-)

P.S.
Thank you Dhim for acknowledging our presence,Ven Felipe and Rio Rose Canio, during ur gig last night. *wink* Tama si Ven, 2nyt's gonna be a gud nyt :-) Party everyday! party everyday!

Loving a Rose

2009-11-13T02:48:00.000-08:00

JayPee Eugenio "Learn to love with all your Heart and Accept the Unlovable side of others, for anyone can Love a Rose but only a Great Heart can include the Thorns"

Love Happens

2009-11-08T00:43:00.000-08:00

next in line is this movie..

"As each struggles with the hurt of love and loss, they realize that in order to move forward, they need to let go of the past. And if they can, they'll find that, sometimes, love happens when you least expect it."

sigh---just like 500 days of summer...very much for me...

500 days of summer

2009-11-07T06:34:00.000-08:00

this movie is about the tears and the laughters one has to go through when in a relationship

it's funny because this movie really do put me into little laughs as i watch this alone, then later, put me in tears..emotions were played..

it started with being always together, kissing, holding hands...but oops! this ain't love...no labels...no iloveyous, only ilikeyous

now conflicts in relationships arise...she's right in the beginning..there's no such thing as love, it's surreal...coz in relationships, people's feelings just get hurt

i'm sorry..kiss and make up, making love (or whatever this is) sweeter the second time around..

but still with hates! all messed up...she broke up with him...

fate tried him and made them met again and they managed to become friends...tough!

he thought, he expected they'll be back, but reality hurts!!! she's engaged...ouch!

from a sister helping her move on-i know you think that she was the one, when you look back, you're just remembering the good stuff, but next time you look back, I really think you should look again..(great moving on line)

denial..acceptance..life has to move on for both of 'em...

closure. release.

then, coincidence. that's all anything ever is. nothing more than coincidence. there's no such thing as fate. nothing is meant to be. summer ended. welcome autumn.

R.I.P.

2009-11-06T05:28:00.000-08:00

Isa 66:33---As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you; and you will be comforted over Jerusalem.

R.I.P, Lola...

Help 4

2009-11-05T05:17:00.000-08:00

Are your standards too low? Dr. Phil asks a guest who's waiting around for a man that's let her down time and again: "What is it about you that causes you to settle for somebody that you know will cheat on you, know will lie to you, know will make a commitment and then break it? What is it about you that you believe about yourself that you're willing to settle for that?" Recognize that you're settling and that you deserve more. Set a higher standard for yourself

Does he really even make you happy? Be honest with yourself about the extent to which he's really meeting your needs. Chances are you're longing for the relationship that you wish it could be, and that you want to be in love with the person you wish he was. Dr. Phil reminds a guest: "There are times when you break up with somebody and you start missing them and you start thinking about all the good things. And then you're back with them for about 10 minutes and you go 'Oh yeah! Now I remember why I hate you!'" Don't kid yourself about what it was really like or glorify the past.

Don't put your life on hold. Every minute you spend focusing on your ex is a minute that's holding you back from a better future. Dr. Phil tells his guest, "As long you are obsessed on this guy, you will never put your heart, soul and mind into getting your life in order and starting another relationship if you want one." Set some goals and start putting your life back together.

Don't hold all men responsible for the mistake your ex made. Why should he pay for the sins of someone else who may have wronged you?

Know that you will get hurt if you're in a relationship. There is no perfect person without flaws. Even a well-intended guy is going to hurt his partner. He's going to hurt your feelings. He's going to say things that you don't want him to say. He's going to do things you wish he wouldn't do and not do things you wish he would do. A relationship is an imperfect union between two willing spirits who say, ''I'd rather be in a relationship and share my life, share my joys, share my fun, share my activities, share my life than do it alone." If you want to be in a relationship, know that getting hurt comes with the territory. You just have to decide that you are durable enough, that you have enough confidence in yourself that you can handle it.

Don't invest more than you can afford to lose. While it's important to move forward, you need to take things one step at a time. Don't put so much out there that you'll be emotionally bankrupt if things go south.

Don't beat yourself up. You got through your last experience, you've learned from it, and now it's time to move forward. Dr. Phil tells his guest, "You'll move on and be a champion in your next endeavor as you did in your past ... Life is not a success-only journey. You are going to get beat up along the way."

Focus on yourself. All of us come into relationships with baggage, but you need to have closure on past experiences before you can start a new relationship with the odds in your favor. Dr. Phil tells a guest who's had trouble with her father, her brother and two previous husbands: "Unless and until you've figured out everything you've got to figure out about that and you get closure, you will never come into a relationship with a fresh and clean heart and mind and expectancy and attitude." You're probably not ready to get into another relationship until you heal the wounds of your past.

Know the statistics. Dr. Phil tells a guest who's waiting for her ex to come around: "There's a 50/50 chance a marriage is going to work if both people are head over heels in love, passionate and willing to climb the mountain, swim the river and slay the dragon to get to each other. That's with everybody crazy in love and running toward each other in that field that we see in the commercials. The problem you've got here is he's running the other way in the field! So if it's 50/50 when you're running toward each other, what do you think it is when the other person is running out of the field and hiding in the woods?"

Help 3

2009-11-05T04:28:00.001-08:00

One of the most painful things we have to do in our lives is Letting Go.

Sometimes it is Letting Go of things...material things which mean a lot to us, because of sentimental value.

It may mean Letting Go of feelings. When we hold sadness inside, and try to mask it with only a show of happiness, it is better to feel the sadness so it washes through us then Let it Go. A good cry can be cleansing.

One of the best things to do in our lives is Letting Go of anger and hurt caused by others. We need to find it in our hearts to forgive lovingly. The anger and hurt we hold inside only poisons us, and causes us to allow that person or persons to control our feelings. I have heard of people who have been hurt far worse than I could ever imagine, yet they found it in their hearts to forgive, with love, and let go. They found a freedom within that allowed them to soar like an eagle. I have found peace by forgiving others who have hurt me, and I pray they have found peace within themselves.

Sometimes, we have to let go of someone we care for very deeply when we realize that person does not care for us in the same way. Maybe it is best to leave them remembering us with whatever kind of feeling they do have for us. It may not be possible to hide our own deeper feelings for that person, which could make their life uncomfortable. Letting Go may be the best gift we can give them because they may realize how we feel, yet care enough not to want to hurt us.

Even when we know a relationship is not right, on both sides, or one person has a doubt about it, it is hard to let go of something that seems secure. We often accept less than the best because we can’t bear to let go.

There are occasions when we feel something wonderful for someone, but we don’t express it for fear of being rejected. Sometimes our feelings will be rejected. Yet, what if we withhold it from the one person who could very well be that One Special Someone in our lives and they too have been afraid to express their true feelings, or don’t even realize their true feelings yet! How sad that we may miss The Best for fear of Letting Go of the expression of those feelings.

Whatever the reason, or situation, it is never easy Letting Go.

Help 2

2009-11-05T04:02:00.000-08:00

Healing Through Letting Go

Letting Go. Releasing. Moving on. These are words that come to mind when holding on to the status quo becomes too painful or takes too much energy.

Even when we're ready, it's seldom easy to let go. But when we do, both we and the other person can become the people we were meant to be—loving without feeling we must control or be dependent on the other for our happiness.

The healing and release we feel when we're finally able to truly let go can't happen, however, until we allow a shift to occur within us, until we're ready for a new way of looking at things, a perspective that is expressed very well in the poem called "What is Letting Go?"

To "let go" does not mean to stop caring. It means I can't do it for someone else.

To "let go" is not to cut myself off. It's the realization that I can't control another.

To "let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another. It's to make the most of myself.

To "let go" is not to care for, but to care about.

To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To "let go" is not to be in the middle, arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept.

To "let go" is not to nag, scold, or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.

To "let go" is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.

To "let go" is to fear less and to love more.

Help 1

2009-11-05T03:59:00.000-08:00

What is letting go of your past?

Letting go of your past means accepting that there's nothing you can do to change the past. You did the best you could. When you're facing your failures, know that you were as good, loving, and effective as you could have been. If you were to go back, you couldn't do anything differently because that's who you were and that's what you knew then. It's done. Let go of your past.

Letting go of your past means forgiving yourself for your mistakes. Ruminating on what you could've or should've done is ineffective and unhealthy. If you're dealing with your mistakes or facing your failures, try to forgive yourself.

Letting go of your past means being aware of your thoughts. When you find yourself dwelling or obsessing over the past or the person you lost, gently draw your thoughts back to the present. Let go of your obsession.

Letting go of your past means trusting the nature of time. You will heal and move on. Your wound will slowly close up and soon only a faint scar will remain - if you let go of your past.

Letting go of your past means making new connections with people. You don't necessarily have to make a whole new set of friends; you can initiate a new type of friendship with a colleague or invite a neighbor over for coffee. If you talk about facing your failures, you'll be better able to actually face your failures.

Letting go of your past means seeking balance in your conversations. It's important to vent and share your pain and sadness, and it's equally important to show your interest in other people's lives. Letting go of your past means letting go of yourself.

Letting go of your past means exploring a new world. Take a new course at the community college or start a new hobby. To let go of the past, start looking in new directions!

Wounded

2009-11-04T02:11:00.000-08:00

The Wounded by Love AgreementPosted By Paulo Coelho On September 25, 2007 (12:28 pm) In Stories
By Paulo Coelho

GENERAL PROVISIONS:

A] Considering that it’s absolutely correct the saying that states that “all is fair in love and war”;

B] Considering that in war we have the Geneva Convention, adopted in August 22nd of 1864, that determines the fate of the wounded in battlefields whereas there is no agreement that was promulgated until this day that deals with the wounded of love, who are much more populous;
IT IS HEREBY DECLARED THAT:

ART. 1 – All lovers, male or female, are now being notified that love, besides being a blessing, is also something very dangerous, unpredictable and able to cause serious damages. Consequently the one who decides to love has to know that his body and soul are exposed to many types of wounds and will not be able to blame the partner in any moment, since the risk is equal to both.

ART. 2- Once a lost arrow from the bow of Cupid hits a person, that person has to immediately ask the archer to dart another arrow in the opposite direction, so that one will not fall prey to the wound famously known as “non-reciprocal love”. In case Cupid refuses such act, the Agreement here promulgated demands that the wounded immediately retrieves the arrow from his heart and throw it in the bin.

Note:In order to achieve this effect, the wounded has to avoid phone calls, internet messages, flower deliveries, or any other act of seduction, since these acts may achieve short term results, but are inevitably erased by time. The convention declares that the wounded has to quickly seek the company of other people in order to control the obsessive thought “it’s still worth to fight for this person”.

ART. 3 – In case the wound comes from third parties, meaning, the loved one is interested in someone else who was not expected in the pre-established plans, it is hereby expressly forbidden any act of revenge. In this case, it is permitted the profuse use of tears, some punches on the wall or pillow, talks with friends where the wounded can freely insult the ex-partner, allege his complete lack of good-taste, but refraining to lessen the partner’s honor.

NOTE: The agreement determines that art. 2 can also be applied: the wounded may seek the company of other people, preferably in places where the partner does not dwell.

ART. 4 – In case of light wounds, hereby classified as small betrayals, fulminating passions that do not last long, transitory sexual disinterest or dysfunction, one has to quickly and abundantly apply a medicine called Forgiveness. Once this medicine applied, one must never look back and the subject must be completely forgotten, never being mentioned as an argument in eventual fights or moments of wrath.

ART. 5 – In the case of definitive wounds, also called “brake-ups”, the only medicine capable of truly healing one’s heart is Time. It’s pointless and ineffective to find consolation with fortune-tellers (that will always allege that the lost love will return), romantic books (in which the endings are always happy ones), TV soap operas or other similar things. One has to suffer with intensity, completely avoiding the use of drugs, painkillers, prayers. Alcohol is only allowed in moderation, never surpassing more than two glasses of wine per day.

FINAL PROVISION: the wounded of love, contrary to the wounded of armed conflicts, are neither victims nor torturers. They have chosen something that is part of life and therefore they have to face the agony and the ecstasy of their choice.

And for those that were never wounded by love, they will never be able to say: “I lived”. Because they haven’t.

Kae, super thank you! big heal for my wounded heart :-) luv u and Joyce...mwah!

Character

2009-11-01T20:42:00.000-08:00

Dear Rio,

Your character is the most important part of who you are. What is character? It's who you are when no one's looking. So, Rio, who are you when no one's looking?

I love you,
God

P.S. Your character is more important than your reputation or your wealth, Rio. Take good care of it.

Sparkle

2009-11-01T20:18:00.001-08:00

Nothing to post today.
But upon visiting one of the blogs that I follow, I found something that put a sparkle on my lonely eyes.
To her: Sorry I copied the pics coz I so luv PINK! I think that makes two of us:-) Thank u!

Work

2009-10-29T03:49:00.000-07:00

Dear Rio,
Your work is your ministry. You job is your mission. Your office is your church. People who see you at work should get blessed.

Love,
God

P.S. Wondering how all these can happen, Rio? Stick around. I'll show you.

Dear Lord,

Thank you!
What a wonderful work (world)...la la la

Reminder

2009-10-26T21:04:00.000-07:00

Last night.
From Didache. A reminder. - Just because the sun isn't shining doesn't mean it's not there.
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Today.
Though I do not have enough sleep and in these trying times, I pray for a good morning and a good day ahead :-) Good mornings in ubertwitter is Oh so contagious! Good morning twithearts! :-) Thanks for reminding me to have a good one :-)
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Speaking of Twitter. I so love the tweeps I follow. Their tweets are so aliw! minsan kaloka, ,most of the time inspiring, kahit di ko makabisado sa dami...it's good na from time to time, I am poked and reminded of life's beauty :-)
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"May jowa na ako!"- statement of the day. So happy for you :-) Another reminder. Love is just around :-) lovelovelove

Broken Hearted Me

2009-10-25T22:40:00.000-07:00

Every now and then I cry
Every night you keep stayin' on my mind
All my friends say I'll survive
It just takes time
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But I don't think time is gonna heal this broken heart
No I don't see how it can if it's broken all apart
A million miracles could never stop the pain
Or put all the pieces together again
No I don't think time is gonna heal this broken heart
No I don't see how it can while we are still apart
And when you hear this song I hope that you will see
That time won't heal a broken-hearted me
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LSS with Sitti's prod in ASAP Sessionistas yesterday.
Mama and Papa's theme song is an Anne Murray song -You needed me.
I also ended up having an Anne Murray theme song - Broken Hearted Me.
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sorry! broken hearted me mode...

Drift or Paddle-excerpt

2009-10-25T22:12:00.000-07:00

Two people in a relationship are like two little boats floating on the sea. Problem: There’s a current that will slowly pull the two boats apart. Before they know it, the two boats are miles away from each other.There’s really only one way to fight the drift: Paddle! If you don’t want to drift, you’ll have to go against the flow and paddle your way to each other. You’ll have to work hard, muscle your way, sweat like crazy and fight to be together. You really only have two choices in life. You either Drift or you Paddle.

But, I was given no choice but to drift.

Happy Birthday Ate AJ

2009-10-25T20:55:00.000-07:00

Because she had an advance birthday celebration and we will still be celebrating her birthday tomorrow...confusion hit her.."Mommy, wag ka maingay ha? Bakit dalawa birthday ko?"

And here are some of her other lines:

While her mommy is taking a picture of her to be used in school:

Tita Rio: Para san ba yan?

AJ: Pang lagay sa Friendster Hala! :-)

Everytime John Lloyd registers on the tube, she would run to me and shout.."Tita Rio, si Papa John LLoyd natin...kekeleg ako!"

She burst in the kitchen singing "Papa papa papa ____ " (to the tune of Paparazzi) Hala! :-)

Tita Rio: Sinong jowa mo?

AJ: Si Gabby Hala ulit :-)

Tita Rio: Punta tayong Australia?

AJ: Opo

Tita Rio: San ba yun?

AJ: Sa langit :-)

Lhet: Bakit umiiyak si Tita Rio

AJ: Nimimiss nya si _______

Ate AJ, your Tita Rio (with everybody's assumption that I will be your ninang in the future-but not anymore-just your Tita forever-isiningit ko talaga!) wishes you all the love and happiness this world can shower you. Be bright as ever. Continue bringing smile and laughter in the house. And always be your mom and dad's pride and joy.

Paglaki mo ikukuwento ko sa yo lahat ng kakulitan mo :-)

Wow them!

2009-10-25T06:15:00.000-07:00

Dear Rio,

When it comes to service, be outrageous. Go the extra mile. Do the unexpected. Wow them. If you're going to serve, might as well have fun at the same time, right?

To your success,
God

P.S. Don't give half-hearted service, Rio. You're built for more exciting stuff.

Crossing

2009-10-20T22:17:00.000-07:00

pre-wedding jitters- Melissa popped a question " What is this pre-wedding thing wherein the girl doubts...bla bla bla...? I replied..."Pre-Wedding jitters". Being cold feet before you take the plunge. The yes or no before the "I do". I know this is just a "what-is-the-term" question, and not a "i-am-into-this-situation" question. Congratulations and Best wishes Melissa! Cheers to a blessed married life! The crossing from two becoming one.

Rachel and Gab-rumored breakup. This time, the crossing from two becoming one and another one. Affected by this showbiz buzz not only because Shin is so much loved by Angel but also because I already crossed that bridge...http://www.pep.ph/news/23599/Gab-Valenciano-on-rumored-breakup-with-Rachelle-Ann-Go

moving the ladies-Martin sent an email-"Can you please arrange to transfer Belinda Claire and Rio to Al Quoz as we discussed. Please arrange for this weekend if possible or alternatively next week-end." After 5 months of staying in the Ayala of Dubai, we're crossing back on the jungle.

and to J, You are a pillar of strength because of the tears that you did not shed...you chose to keep inside..because you face this with grace...Courage is an understatement. May God keep you and your family in this trying times. Crossing this hell or high water, you'll be able to conquer this.

Respect

2009-10-20T21:55:00.000-07:00

Dear Rio,

Do you respect yourself? Do you respect your feelings? Do you respect your needs? Always be respectful with yourself. You’re dealing with royalty.

Happy to have made your acquaintance,
God

P.S. I respect you, Rio.

Dear Lord,

I respect you more.